Are you obsessed with finding The One?

Is it realistic to wait for the right person to come along? Should you have to settle for second best?

Comments

[louise evans]

Since the age of 18 all i have ever thought about is meeting "my soulmate". I am now 26 and still havent met "the one", some people say everyone has a soulmate, but what if you do meet your soulmate but you are in love with someone else? I do believe there is someone out there for everyone because some of my friends are married and getting married to men that i think are so well matched for them which makes me think dont give up on love yet, i know life isnt what it is in the movies but you never know.

[Tom Williams]

i think the women and gay men of today believe that there is this one great men when hes not real.
when we are little we believe in the happly ever after and that people don't get happy ever after only in flims and books
we find this guy and he could be amazing good hair , nice job car what ever but if there is one floor, we throw him away like an old over coat. and in the long term is it not i-deal waiting for mr right and sometimes we have to settle for secound best.

[Hazel]

I do believe in timing - it will happen when it happens. No I dont think you should settle for 2nd best. As long as you both have the basics then true love, attraction and commitment can be worked at.