Would you have an affair to save your marriage?

 Do you think Daniel will ever settle down? Do men find it easier to separate love and sex than women?

Comments

[David Gardnier]

Well I am not agree with Deniel, because having an affair with some other guy is just like betraining her husband/partner and that guy too who plays a role in affair because of the selfishness of wife/girl.

[Della]

I feel so sorry for these husbands going about their every day lives not really full knowing what they are up against. These ladies owe it to their partners but mainly themselves to live a burden-free, honest and happy life - you only get one shot so if you're that unhappy with your husband that you have to get intimate with someone else, you should be big enough to either come clean or finish the long term relationship - otherwise what's the point. Having your cake and eating it is not always so sweet. Believe me.

[Elaine McLelland]

I think this man lives in cuckoo land myself! I think he is afraid to commit to a 'proper' relationship ... in fact I only read so far down the article because it made my blood boil. If things aren't going right in a marriage an 'affair' or 'sex with someone else' isn't the answer and the poor unsuspecting partner will be the one who suffers.
I am surprised that Fabulas gave this man 'page space' to be honest. Can you imagine meeting him and having an affair with him then finding out he has had, by his own admittance, affairs (and presumably, sex) with about 55 women (or more!) before he got to you? Yuck, I'd rather abstain and work at 'working things out ' with my husband thanks! Isn't that the idea of marriage 'a partnership'?
Elaine McLelland

[Lilly]

Of course Daniel will eventually settle down, what he is providing has no bearing on his future to find a girl to love and settle down with, - i have been having an affair with a much younger guy for almost 3 years whom i met through work, we share many laughs and tender moments together but we both know that it is purely sex. I never planned to have an affair but when it happend it just seemed right. I have been married for over 20 years and yes my marriage could be better but the sex i have with my young lover makes me feel sexy again which helps me feel confident enough to have better sex at home. Separating love and sex is easy you have to be realistic and have your mind and eyes wide open otherwise your going to get hurt.

[kendra]

If I were in that situation, I don't think it's a way to save my marriage. It would just be a diversion from the real problem itself. You know, just to make myself escape sadness momentarily.

[lorraine]

Hi i have been with my husband for for almost 16 years . I absolutley adore my husband but sex was not the greatest. I had a three year affair with a work collegue he made me feel so sexy and very feminine. He made me feel attractive for the first time in years. But i made a stupid mistake and left a message on my mobile that my husband found. I nearly lost my marriage for the sake of a sorrid affair. Me and my husband managed to work things through and our marriage is far more stronger now . We both now do not take each other for granted and we make sure that we make time for each other. It will not be easy but we are working at it.

Lorraine

[Alesha Thorton]

Yes. I have had an affair before during a serious relationship. I am only 24 but last year my partner suddenly stopped having sex with me and we never really spoke about our relationship, i couldn't see any chemistry and felt like he just wasn't interested anymore. So I had an affair with a work colleague to win back his attention and it worked, he told me he loved me and was sorry that he had made me feel this way. Twelve months on and I am now three months pregnant and we are living in a new house together. So yes, I am 99.9% with Daniel :)